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    How to get past the gatekeeper: a strategy guide for B2B callers

    Who gatekeepers are, how they screen calls, how to prepare and the routes that reach the decision maker honestly.

    By Harry Constant, Founder, Nousu Collective · Published 3 November 2026 · Last updated 3 November 2026 · 11 min read

    Quick answer

    You get past the gatekeeper by being honest, specific and easy to help: say who you are, name the person or role you need, and give a short reason that sounds like business rather than a sales pitch. When the front door stays shut, use the other routes in, such as direct lines, a referral from inside the company, LinkedIn and email, rather than tricks.

    Who gatekeepers are and what their job is

    A gatekeeper is anyone between you and the person you want to reach: a receptionist, an executive assistant, a practice manager, a team administrator, an automated phone menu. Their job is not to block you. Their job is to protect their manager's time and route calls to the right place. Callers who understand that difference get through far more often.

    Types of gatekeeper
    GatekeeperWhat they are measured onWhat helps them help you
    Receptionist or switchboardRouting calls quickly and correctlyA name, or a clear role, and a one-line reason
    Executive assistantProtecting a senior person's calendar and attentionRelevance, brevity and respect for their judgement
    Practice manager or administratorKeeping the business running smoothlyA reason that relates to how the business runs
    Automated menuSending calls to the right teamKnowing the extension, the department or the directory option

    Types of gatekeeper

    In Nousu's data from 218,000+ dials into Australian businesses, 14% of dials reach a live person, but only 6% reach a decision maker. More than half of the live answers are someone else. How you handle that someone else decides your numbers.

    Why most callers get stopped

    Gatekeepers hear sales calls all day, so they recognise the pattern within a sentence. The pattern is not cold calling as such. It is the signals that say this call is a pitch to someone who did not ask for it.

    Signals that get you screened out
    SignalWhat the gatekeeper hearsDo this instead
    "Hi, how are you today?" in a sales voiceA scriptA plain greeting and your name
    Hiding your company nameSomething to hideSay your name and company straight away
    "I'm calling about an exciting opportunity"A pitchName a specific topic or problem
    Asking for "the person in charge of" a vague areaA list callerName the person, or a specific role
    Rushing or talking over themPressureSlow down and let them finish
    Pretending to know the person or to be returning a callA lie, which they often checkNever do it

    Signals that get you screened out

    Australian gatekeepers are also quick to spot an offshore caller. In Nousu's data, the median time for an Australian buyer to identify an offshore caller is 11 seconds, and offshore teams reach a decision maker on 1.5% of dials, against 6% onshore.

    Five principles that get you through

    1. Be honest. Say who you are and where you are calling from. Never imply a relationship you do not have. Gatekeepers talk to their managers, and one discovered lie ends the account.
    2. Be specific. A named person and a specific topic sound like business. A vague request sounds like a list.
    3. Be brief. One sentence of reason is enough. The gatekeeper does not need your pitch and will not pass it on.
    4. Ask for help. "I wonder if you can help me" invites the gatekeeper to do the part of their job they enjoy.
    5. Treat them as a colleague. Use their name, thank them, and log it so the next call starts warmer. Many gatekeepers become your best source of information about how the company works.

    The principles work together. Honesty without specificity sounds vague, and specificity without brevity turns into a pitch. Practise all five until the call sounds like one professional asking another for a small, reasonable favour, because that is exactly what it is.

    For script versions of these principles, see the gatekeeper section of the cold call scripts library and our post of 11 gatekeeper scripts. This guide covers the strategy behind them.

    Routes to the decision maker

    The switchboard is only one way in. Strong callers plan several routes and use whichever is open. If one route is blocked three times, move to the next instead of calling reception a fourth time.

    Routes into an account
    1. Direct line or mobile

      Verified data for the named contact. The shortest route.

    2. Switchboard with a name

      Ask for the person by name with a one-line reason.

    3. Switchboard with a role

      Ask for help finding who owns the problem.

    4. Another department

      Sales or customer service teams answer and often transfer.

    5. Referral from inside

      Someone senior or nearby suggests you speak to the right person.

    6. LinkedIn and email

      A short, relevant note before or after the call.

    Data decides which route you can use. Nousu's industry figures count only dials to verified direct numbers, and their connect rates run from 15% to 26%, against 14% across all dials.

    The referral from inside

    One of the most reliable routes is a genuine internal referral. If you reach someone senior who is not the right person, ask who is, and whether you can mention that they suggested it. Then use it honestly: "{{referrer_name}} suggested I speak with you about {{topic}}." Only say it if they did.

    Prepare before you call

    Gatekeeper preparation for each account

    • The decision maker's name and title, and the names of one or two others who could own the problem.
    • The gatekeeper's name, if you have spoken before, logged in the CRM.
    • A one-sentence reason for the call that is specific to their business.
    • The best time to call in their local time, avoiding the 12pm to 1:30pm lunch dip when the connect rate falls to 9%.
    • Your alternative route if you are blocked: direct line, another department, LinkedIn or email.
    • What you will ask the gatekeeper if the decision maker is unavailable: the best time to call back, or the right person to speak to.

    Draft your gatekeeper lines with the cold call script generator, which writes gatekeeper responses for your offer.

    What to say: short lines for common moments

    The lines below are deliberately short. They are starting points to put in your own words, not scripts to read. Full scripts are in the cold call scripts library.

    Asking for a named person

    Hi, it's {{your_name}} from {{company}}. Could you put me through to {{decision_maker_first_name}}, please?
    
    (If asked what it's about) It's about {{specific_topic}} at {{prospect_company}}. I'm hoping for two minutes with {{decision_maker_first_name}} to see if it's relevant.

    Use it when you know the name. Use the first name, as a colleague would. Common mistake: launching into the pitch when asked what it is about.

    Replace everything in double curly brackets before you use it.

    Asking for help finding the right person

    Hi, it's {{your_name}} from {{company}}. I wonder if you can help me. I'm trying to find out who looks after {{specific_area}} there. Would that be {{role_guess}}, or someone else?

    Use it when you do not know who owns the problem. Ask for their name and thank them by name. Common mistake: asking for 'the person in charge of purchasing'.

    Replace everything in double curly brackets before you use it.

    When the decision maker is unavailable

    No problem. When is {{decision_maker_first_name}} usually easiest to catch? I'll try then rather than leave a message.
    
    Thanks, {{gatekeeper_name}}, I appreciate it.

    Use it to turn a block into information. Log the time and the gatekeeper's name, then call at that time.

    Replace everything in double curly brackets before you use it.

    When an executive assistant screens the call

    That makes sense. In a sentence: we help {{peer_group}} with {{specific_problem}}, and I wanted to see whether it's on {{decision_maker_first_name}}'s radar this year. Would you suggest I send you a short note to pass on, or is there a better time to call?

    Use it with EAs, who decide what reaches their manager. Respect their judgement and give them an easy next step.

    Replace everything in double curly brackets before you use it.

    Working with executive assistants

    An executive assistant is not a receptionist. They know their manager's priorities, calendar and preferences, and they often decide what reaches the inbox. Winning an EA's trust is slower than getting through a switchboard, but it is worth more.

    • Ask the EA what their manager is focused on this quarter, and whether your topic fits.
    • Offer to send a short note to the EA to pass on, written so it can be forwarded unchanged.
    • Ask how their manager prefers to be contacted: some take calls, some only read email.
    • Follow up with the EA, not around them. Going around an EA who has helped you closes the door for good.

    Training callers to handle gatekeepers

    Gatekeeper skill is learned on the phone, but it can be practised off it. The fastest improvement comes from short role plays on the four or five situations that come up every day, and from listening live to experienced callers.

    Gatekeeper role play, 20 minutes a week

    • The receptionist who asks what it is about.
    • The executive assistant who asks you to email them instead.
    • The gatekeeper who says the person is in a meeting and will not give a callback time.
    • The call where you do not know who owns the problem.
    • The gatekeeper who says they are not interested on their manager's behalf.
    • After each run, the caller names one thing to change and repeats it once.

    Track progress by the gap between connect rate and decision-maker conversation rate, by caller. A caller with a normal connect rate and a low conversation rate needs gatekeeper coaching first. Our sales coaching guide has a simple weekly rhythm.

    Measuring gatekeeper performance

    You can see gatekeeper performance in two numbers you already track: connect rate and decision-maker conversation rate. The gap between them is the gatekeeper problem.

    From live answer to decision maker, Nousu all-dials averagesPer 100 dials into Australian businesses.
    • Live answers14
    • Decision-maker conversations6

    If your connect rate is around 14% but your decision-maker conversation rate is well under 6% of dials, the issue is either the gatekeeper approach or the wrong roles on your list. Check which by reading the call notes: are you getting blocked, or reaching people who do not own the problem? Test one change at a time and compare the rate over a few hundred dials. The meetings per dial calculator shows what a lift at this stage is worth in meetings.

    Gatekeepers in different sectors

    Who answers, by sector
    SectorUsual gatekeeperWhat works
    Medical clinicsReception and practice managerCalling outside patient peaks; the practice manager often owns the decision. See booking demos with medical clinics
    PharmacyDispensary staffCalling outside dispensing peaks and asking for the owner. See booking meetings with pharmacy owners
    Manufacturing and logisticsReception or a shift supervisorNaming the role and asking for help; shift times matter. See booking meetings with logistics managers
    Professional servicesReception and EAsPartners' EAs respond to relevance and brevity
    Corporate headquartersSwitchboard and automated menusDirect lines and LinkedIn are usually faster than the main number

    Who answers, by sector

    Frequently asked questions

    How do you get past the gatekeeper on a cold call?

    Say your name and company, ask for the person by name or ask for help finding the right person, and give a one-sentence specific reason. Be brief, honest and polite, and if blocked, use another route such as a direct line, LinkedIn or email.

    What should I say to a receptionist on a sales call?

    A plain greeting, your name and company, and the name of the person you need. If asked why, give one specific sentence about the topic. Do not pitch the receptionist.

    Is it OK to lie to a gatekeeper?

    No. Pretending to know the person or to be returning a call is dishonest, often checked and usually ends any chance with that account. It can also breach consumer and telemarketing rules.

    How do I find the decision maker's name?

    Check LinkedIn, the company website and your CRM before calling. If you cannot find it, ask the gatekeeper for help: who looks after this area, and what is their name?

    What if the gatekeeper asks me to send an email?

    Agree, ask who it should go to and what would make it worth passing on, then send a short note written so it can be forwarded unchanged. Ask when to follow up.

    How do I work with an executive assistant?

    Treat them as a decision maker in their own right. Ask about their manager's priorities, offer a forwardable note, ask how their manager likes to be contacted and follow up with them, not around them.

    How many dials reach a decision maker?

    In Nousu's data, 14% of dials reach a live person and 6% reach a decision maker. The gap is mostly gatekeepers and people who do not own the problem.

    What do I do when every call goes to voicemail?

    Vary the window and the weekday, leave a short voicemail only on the third attempt or later, and add another route: a direct line, LinkedIn or a short email addressed to the person by name.

    Should I call before 9am to avoid the gatekeeper?

    Not in Australia. The telemarketing industry standard limits calls to 9am to 8pm on weekdays and 9am to 5pm on Saturdays, in the time zone of the person you are calling. Use direct lines and the peak windows instead.

    Where can I find gatekeeper scripts?

    Our cold call scripts library has gatekeeper scripts, and our blog post on getting past the gatekeeper has 11 more. The cold call script generator writes gatekeeper lines for your own offer.

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